Paired: Couples & Relationship App Reviews

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Decent but…. Edit; I found the report a bug button! And aside from the subscription based nonsense, this app is super fun and a nice daily thing to do with your partner :) ~~~~ There’s nothing wrong with the app persay. The premise is great and the results speak for themselves. It’s a fun little thing to do everyday with the significant other if nothing else. My main issues are 1, there’s no feedback option or link to report a bug. It’s just bad business in my opinion to assume your app is perfect and your users will never need to report anything. 2, the bug I was trying to report which made me realize the above point in the first place was that when one of us changes our photo, it doesn’t reflect on the others’ app. My boyfriend added a photo of himself and I can’t see it on my end. He can see mine and the cover photo, which is odd. 3, you know I’m gonna whine and moan about the subscription based pricing. It’s such a scam to pay per month when you used to be able to just buy the premium version of apps for like 5 bucks and that was the end of it. That’s it. If you add a “report a bug” button and fix the photo bug, I would definitely think it’s worth 4 stars at least. We use it every day and most questions give us a good conversation starter.

You Get Out Of It What You Put Into It. The best relationship advice i ever got was “Stop searching for the “right” person and start “BEING” the right person.” You want a person who is a 10 out of 10 right? Well you can’t be a 5 expecting a 10 to want you. 10’s attract 10’s. So focus on being the best you that you can be, and upon doing so, you will see the stars align for you. This is by far one of the better apps out there that is truly worth paying for. You really do get out of it what you put into it and i think that if you both can be truthfully honest, as well as brutally honest, it will truly bring the two of you together. It gives you an opportunity to really get into your significant others head, which lesssss be honest, you wouldn’t have been able to do so otherwise because 9/10 couples are afraid of being honest with each other, let alone being “brutally” honest. So; if you’re looking for a review that says “this app is worth every penny and you should totally download it!” well then you have my vote! Good luck to those looking to better their relationship and not give up on something just because it’s hard! It really is amazing to see people stick together, work their problems out and make it thru 60 years. Can you say #thenotebook #bobbleheadstogether #togetheruntilvelcrow

Daily question now may require photo upload. Been using this app for over a year, initially as the free version then did the free trial of the premium - forgot to cancel it before the trial ended so my partner and I have been using the paid version for a year as of this month. It’s a great app as far as the variety of topics to discuss, and the daily question prompt was fun UNTIL just recently some days the prompt REQUIRES you to upload a photo. This may not be a big deal to some folks, but I’m very mindful of what I upload where, and am not comfortable uploading a picture to answer the question of the day. I’d imagine in theory only my partner would see the picture, but this is the internet, so I’d be naïve to take that at face value. Keeping the photo upload feature is fine, but I would like an additional option to either select from several pictures/icons suggested within the app to answer these kinds of questions, and/or be able type a response so we can keep the conversation streak alive. Otherwise, the app has been fun and people in new relationships OR people in relationships needing to work on communication would benefit from using it. My partner and I have been together over a decade and using this app over a year, so we don’t get as much out of it now than we did in the beginning, but we communicate well in general.

Feels like I’m actively building our bond. My wife and I started out with the free membership but liked it enough that we paid for the subscription, which is very reasonable. In the paid membership you can choose categories to pick questions from and I like going to the category that most guys would go to😏. This is a very non-threatening way to bring up conversations that you wouldn’t otherwise talk about, or subjects that you want to talk about but are too afraid to bring up; for men and women, in new or long term relationships. I would recommend this app to all couples. It gives me the feeling that I’m actively doing something to work on my marriage. It’s the little things that make the big things in marriage (or dating) and this is a big little thing.

Great way to deepen the connection. ❤️. I’ve been using this app for three months now with the start of a new long-distance relationship. I have never tried either of these two and have found this app as a crucial component to the development of our relationship. It structures conversation and brings questions that allow us to safely explore, engage and grow deeper together in our relationship. I love the way the app explains why they’re asking the questions and how this can impact your relationship. The multimedia aspects of the app allows for creative connection and reflection. I highly recommend this app for new couples and couples who have been together for many years. One of the best investments I’ve made, and I’m grateful for its impact on this new relationship.

Long distance Intimacy &Trust. We both love this app. Sometimes he rushes me to answer the next question so we can do another. We started doing as many as we could on our own time, but the way the chat is set up decided to do one at a time and talk in the chat about it before the next set of questions and answers. We’ve talked so much about these topics already when we began dating but it’s fun to rethink some of these questions and re-realize or see how the answer has changed now or merged together. It actually eases my mind personally too because I get something in my head and then I worry. Re-understanding some things, or being more clear about his perspectives with this app makes me see how far we already came and the scale is not tipping into terrible doom, but in fact we’re doing 80% well and only 20% arguing. Our arguing can seem so big and make me feel like it’s not good relationship, but that’s more about my fears than the reality of our healthy relationship. Seeing the smiley faces compared as made me also see how he always leans 1 smiley face more positive and I see it more negative shows how we are kind of on the same page, only I have a bit more caution and planning and he is a bit more ready for action. We have fun and laugh about our answers also and then usually talk more in depth after; plus it brings up new questions we both think of.

Fall In Love All Over Again.. My wife and I were broken. This app is and continues to bridge the gap and repair the brokenness. After 18 years, this app gives me the opportunity to fall in love with my Bride all over again. Through this app, I have learned more about her in 18 months than I ever thought I knew after 18 years. My heart knew I loved her- this app has shown me why. This app allows her to reveal her soul; gives us the opportunity to connect on the deepest intimate level. I can see she is beautiful- this app gives color and vibrance to both her heart and our amazing marriage. She is my best friend, and this app shows and proves to me why. We would not have made it without some form of reconnecting and understanding- this app provided substance and evidence of all the love we share and allows us to fall head-over-heels for the stranger or roommate on the other side of the bed. Thank God for this app, please use it- it truly works. It saves and it restores. You could never be disappointed with just trying it- it will surprise you and give you a new-found sense of hope; it will add so much depth and color to your black&white relationship. Please try this- it truly works.

Sexuality and Paired’s Questions. I like Paired a lot, I’ve found that it is a fun conversation starter for me and my boyfriend of two years- it’s something we do every morning as part of our routine. I think the questions are engaging, some more so than others (often the quizzes are a low-point for me), but in general I am a fan of the app. This is where the title of my review comes in. I am asexual (a sexuality in which a person experiences little to no sexual attraction towards anyone). I do not have sexual attraction to my partner, and I neither want to have sex, or do have sex with him. This has lead to many an awkward situation for us. He will give a whole paragraph about sexual attraction and his feelings and my answers will be “i do not experience sexual attraction”. Questions regarding our sex life are dull and simply go no where. If anything they’re awkward. If I could change anything, I would recommend making it do couples could choose if they are interested in having questions regarding sex or not. It would allow for people like me, to not only feel more represented and respected, but also make for a better app in my opinion. People don’t have sex lives for more than just asexuality, and if they are uncomfortable by it, they should have the option to avoid it.

Idea for improvement. I had actually thought about doing something like this on our own so when I found out this app existed it was perfect. Overall I do enjoy using it and the games help make the experience fun and the quizzes help pinpoint areas of improvement. I upgraded us to a premium account so that we could answer as much as we wanted but the one thing I’ve found that I dislike about the app is that after your partner answers questions, there’s no easy way to see what is still left for you to answer unless you do it right away. We’re both incredibly busy so we answer the daily question each day but the bonus stuff we sometimes answer a few days a part so we can give it our full attention, in the chat the material your partner answers comes up but it is difficult to scroll through everything to find what you missed. My suggestion would be that on the next update, there be a spot designated to this on the home screen. Right below the daily question I think a to-do list would be incredibly beneficial to the users.

Do not sign up for the “free“ trial. 1st, the free trial…. Don’t sign up for it, you will get shifted to the annual instead of monthly and boom! $60 is gone! I don’t know if some kid in some Third World country put this app together with AI… But they definitely have never had a real true life adult relationship. This app and the way it structures discussion questions, actually caused more issues than it helped. When it gave you options for questions in different quizzes, the options are EXTREMELY LIMITED… for example instead of asking you if you and your wife like to watch movies and then opening options, it just asked pick a movie… Except we don’t watch movies… and wouldn’t have watched any of the 4 it gave… it should have given genres. Half of the activities that we had to answer had nothing to do with either one of us individually or together as a couple. We worked through multiple quizzes together and we both agreed that our answers would not work out to give us great advice because it was asking us (or anyone we know) questions that had nothing to do with us and it did not adjust questions as we answered questions. Nothing in this app helped bring us closer together, nothing fostered new or additional conversation, or did anything other than cause additional issues….. not worth the space it takes to download

Good concept, poor execution. The app WOULD be worth it for the exercises, games, quizzes, etc. They are fun and definitely help build connection and intimacy in the relationship. That being said, the app and subscription is SO glitchy. After the trial I subscribed to premium, which should cover both my partner and I, and even though we show successfully paired, it has locked him out. Additionally, the “stats” - who has won more games, answered more activities, etc. - are WAY off. They randomly populate and are not accurate. We’ve tracked our stats on our own and they are not even close. The support feature within the app doesn’t work, and there are regular “action/item error” bug alerts. Sometimes one of us will answer a game or pack and it won’t save the answers, or mark it as complete when the other answers, but will say it was finished and not allow us to go back. Until they fix the development, it’s not worth the $15/month $80/year.

Love It, but Hope for Updates Soon. The content of the app is awesome and helps my partner and I connect daily. I also think the design is very cute. I knocked off two stars because: 1) The notifications are glitchy every day. It reminds us of the prompt even after we’ve completed them (my partner experiences this too) and sometimes doesn’t remind us except for once in the morning. It also takes opening the app several times to get it to register that I’ve read my partners response. Ideally, I’d like to get notified every few hours, but only if I haven’t responded and notified once of my partners response. Maybe I feel strongly about this because my partner and I are competitive about maintaining our daily streak! 2) I wish there were more pricing options. I’d be happy to pay $5 a month on a monthly basis for access to limited content, but paying so much up front or $10 a month is too high of an ask and we don’t have time for ALL of the content offered there.

Scoring Quizzes. Honestly throughly enjoy this app! My partner and I have been using it for months. He takes week long trips at times for work and that’s when we really use the app. The questions and quizzes spark conversations for us to chat more in depth about the answers given and provide more insight into ourselves as individuals and when we come together for “us”! The only reason I didn’t give it “5 stars” is simply because of the fact that when we both provide our answers for the games, there is a score at the very end showing how your answers about your partner compared to your partners answers about themselves and visa versa. The “winner” of the quiz receives a 🏆 next to their score and the “loser” receives a 😭 next to their score. This has unintentionally sparked competition with answering these quizzes and negative feelings get brought up if it’s evident that there was a clear winner and a clear loser. I understand this is not the intention of the app as it’s built to spark conversation and connection, not competition.

Great app. It has been very helpful for my relationship. Sometimes we talk about everything but our relationship. This app helps to guide those discussions. We also are thinking about things in ways that we haven’t previously and I personally found out positive things my partner was thinking about me that I didn’t know (how much he appreciates me and why) which felt great. I also feel like it helps us remain close even when we are apart. My only suggestion is that you should be able to discuss responses under the question not in the general chat because it becomes difficult to tell what you are referring to. I also think it’s a bit expensive for the paid portions though I do appreciate the daily questions being free. All in all it is a simple fix that has bought me and my boyfriend even closer. It helps so much when one or both people have difficulty expressing emotions.

The only way you get to really use the app like the ads show is if you pay for it.. I got this app because I had tried one similar to it before and found it fun. This one looked cute and my boyfriend and I thought it’d be fun to play games and learn about each other. However after the initial signing up and the free quizzes they give you, there’s only one conversation question per day. You don’t even get to pick it or choose a question in the area you’d like to improve your relationship. This app is just a sales pitch to buy their premium version which is outrageous for $75 a year or $6.25 a month. I’m not willing to do a “free trial” to see if it’s worth it because I’ve read several reviews that say they switch you into a more costly subscription and take your money and then disappear when you try to contact them. If you’re looking for a fun app to add some extra fun and help you get to know each other more, don’t get this one. There’s actually an app called “Tuned - a new app for couples” that works better imo. And there’s loads of these apps out now. For the app creators, if you’re going to put ads up like you do, just make people pay for the app instead of lying to them about what they get.

Great app!. I like that you can see other people’s answers, and only after you answer first to not get influenced. My relationship with my boyfriend was already so great, a real beauty. But the app required us to make time out of our day FOR our relationship. 1 by answering the question, forcing you to think about your role and your partner’s role in the relationship, and 2 by taking the time to talk about the answer(s) after. It’s like a mini date. It opens your eyes to many things you might not have really thought about. The tips and exercises are an amazing plus. Of course it’s hard to implement right away but if you take the time to actually do an exercise, there’s a great big connection at the end where you just wanna stare into each other’s eyes and say I love you all day and cuddle. Or at least that’s how I feel. Like I said, my relationship was already great to begin with; strong communication. I’m sorry I can’t say for a relationship that’s struggling. :/ Hope this helps though. Wish y’all the best!

Absolutely amazing!. Me and my fiancee have been using paired for less than a year, and it's been so amazing! Let me start by saying this is all with the free version of Paired. we do not have premium, YET. It has improved our communication skills, helped us become better partners to each other, and brought up issues and insecurities we didn't know about, giving us the space to work through or fix them. I recently had to move cross country, and Paired has helped bridge the distance in ways we never expected! You recieve coins for answering questions, and can then spend them to send "gestures" like a hug, kiss, or flirt to your partner. It's a small animation, but it's incredibly cute and heartwarming for both of us. I highly recommend this app, even if you can't or don't want to pay for premium, it's still absolutely amazing!

Nice but…. Overall answering the questions is super fun and I enjoy getting the chance to talk with my partner about so many different topics. Everything had been going well with the app up until recently. For some reason it neglects to tell us in notifications that we have a new conversation to complete or it will notify us that we haven’t answered the daily conversation even when we have. Just yesterday my partner and I had answered the daily question, even though we did it took away our streak saying that we hadn’t answered it. In the Chat area it says I have 6 notifications from my partner that I haven’t read but I have read everything from them, and it’s annoying I can’t make it go away. Luckily we can answer the questions like normal but it’s annoying having the streaks taken away and being notified incorrectly. I feel like this shouldn’t be an issue since it wasn’t before but it seems like they messed something up in an update if i were to take a guess.

A game changer. Using this app has opened my eyes big time. My girlfriend and I have rarely had issues communicating with one another but this has helped me to learn even more about her than I already knew and it has sparked some interesting (and NEW) conversations. We both look forward to the “Question of the Day”. I just signed up for the 7 day trial yesterday after a full week of just using the Free Version and I already know I’m going to stick with the premium subscription. It’s a small price to pay for what I consider a solid investment in our relationship. I’ll go as far to say that had I found this a few years ago, it may have given my marriage a fighting chance because communication was the biggest issue between my ex wife and I. Chalk it up to life and lessons learned. I highly recommend this to anyone regardless of relationship/marital status and regardless of how secure or confident you feel in your relationship. What do you have to lose?

25 engaged and both WFH. I’ve never reviewed an app before, but I knew this deserved one. I’m 25 & engaged to my fiancé Matt. We also both work from home so we are around each other ALL OF THE TIME. Needless to say-things can get boring sometimes. We have been dating for two and a half years and getting married this July. We both downloaded this app this summer, I figured we’d use it for a week and be done. But we both love it. We use it around each other and when one of us is traveling. My boyfriend and I will go back and forth answering quizzes. It makes you genuinely feel like you are spending quality time with that person. I hope eventually they add more questions for people in the engaged stage - but I love this app!! We tell all of our friends!!

Great but not free. When I first saw an ad for this app I didn’t know you had to pay for most of the features. My bf and I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years and we’re looking for a fun way to connect with each other in new ways. We decided to do the free trial. We really enjoyed the games as he is a competitive guy but it was also insightful into our relationship about what we truly think and feel. My only complaint about this app is that it is a paid subscription. I know developers have to make money somehow but I feel like an app like this should have either been entirely free or a single time purchase. I would have spent money purchasing the app for full access rather than a subscription. We tried to use it as much as we could in the 7 day trial but we won’t be continuing. That money could be put to other things right now that are a little more important than an app (like eggs that cost a billion dollars TT-TT).

Great premise, tiny improvements needed.. Love the app. Definitely doing it’s job in helping my wife and I of 17 years ratchet up the conversations. I will say though, it can be rather difficult to track updates to Q & A’s, quizzes or discussions once initiated. There’s no ‘sort’ feature on the discussions page so you have to swim through a mile of conversations and see if you can find one that’s been updated. A ‘sort by’ feature so discussions or answers that haven’t been read yet is a must in my opinion. Also, at times, when the little red heart shows up on a title signifying something has been added to the conversation, it doesn’t always seem to open to something new. Often it’s something I’ve already seen. Trying to find the new information becomes a sisyphean task. Lastly, wish the homepage of the discussions could collapse down further into completed conversations. There are some I know we won’t revisit. Would simplify if they could be archived or something.

It’s just ok. It’s ok. The questions don’t really get down to what matters. They might say something like “the communication in our relationship is great” and you have a scale to agree or disagree. Questions like this don’t help. I think it should be worded in two questions instead of one: “I feel I communicate effectively in the relationship” and “I feel my partner communicates effectively in the relationship” by both of us ranking ourselves and each other it would be more telling and give us an opportunity to zero in on areas where I might feel I’m doing a great job but maybe my partner doesn’t. I don’t feel like there’s an “after” section either. For instance let’s say both my partner and I score low on a quiz and that low score indicates a problem; there’s no real follow up that says “you both scored low here. Here’s some ways to increase ‘whatever the problem is’”. Overall it’s an ok app but I won’t be keeping my membership.

Incredibly practical and helpful. We were looking for an app that would nudge us to interact more regularly, and for an app that would help us have on-going discussions without the fear of accidentally typing our thoughts in a wrong group or text thread with others (that’s happened Badie and it is so embarrassing!!) We tried so many different over many years and had already given up finding one. Then we came across Paired and wow!! It’s incredible. Love the chat feature. No risk of accidentally typing in a different group. Love the way it encourages us to interact regularly (making it fun). It even has a daily calendar of our interactions with one another. Love the quizzes. Wow those have opened our eyes on the areas we are in agreement and where we are not. It’s helped us to know which areas to high-five each other, and where we need to talk about. And the pricing is incredibly reasonable. Highly recommend it.

Good app but could use some added features. I’m so far pretty happy with the ease of using the app and the type of questions and quizzes that are given but I did have a couple suggestions: 1). For the love notes, I feel like you should be able to pick from a lot more emotions than like 10. There are so many feelings you could be feeling and I don’t think it should be limited to such a small amount. Maybe even 25 feelings would help me really express how I feel as I write a love note. 2). I think you should be able to jot down notes after you and your partner take a quiz. We should be able to discuss the questions and take some notes and write about it so that we have something to look back on and see how we’re progressing. 3). We should be able to redo a quiz in a couple weeks or months. I want to see the progress of my parter and I. Are we feeling better than before or worse? Then we could compare the results from 2 months ago and today. 4). It would be nice to be able to respond to their answers on the questions. Even with a limited amount of letters. This would be nice when we are unable to immediately discuss how we feel about how they answered the question. Hope some of this feedback makes it back to the big guys who made this app because it is a great tool for couples! I just wish these features were added!

Latest upgrade is a downgrade for the free version. It seems that with the latest update, if you’re using the free version, you can’t go back and answer questions you missed that your partner already answered. The features you get without paying for premium are already kind of sparse, so it was nice to at least be able to answer the questions you missed that your partner already answered, but now you can literally only answer one question a day, even if you’re just trying to play catch up, which is kind of ridiculous. Also, several times we’ve had a streak and then lost it because the app can’t handle itself; I’ll try to answer a question so I don’t lose the streak, but the app will either crash or tell me I’ve already answered the question. But obviously I haven’t answered, so when I open the app the next day, my streak is gone. Wonder if this happens if you can afford to fork out the almost $80 a year for this. Really disappointing.

Amazing app for married couples. Thank you so much. My wife and I had to be apart for work related issues this summer and this really saved me. Using it all year long had been great to that point as well, but any time apart really makes this app unbelievably important to help is keep doing the work of building and growing our relationship like we would if we were together physically. The recently updated format to see what has been answered to catch up and the side bar to chat on each topic is much improved and really intuitive. Very few questions have not been relevant to our situation, the couple that are not pertaining to our demographic or lifestyle can be skipped over, or we answer for fun and shock value (at our own peril I might add) I’m unable to see the group of questions that I answer once we’ve both selected for each partner when we do a challenge/winner game, I can only presently see the single answer given, it makes it hard to recall the choices offered if that makes any sense (“all of the above” doesn’t really tell me what that was referring to, for example when asking me “Never have you ever —- “ I’ve recommended this app to all my close friends that I know are in great relationships. This will only make them better and it’s worth every penny. I’ll never let this sub go.

Unreliable. Ever since the most recent update, the app keeps crashing and losing my thoughtful typed out answers. I’ve updated my iOS and have closed all other programs. It’s indescribably frustrating to have a paid for app be so inconvenient and unreliable. Definitely not getting my money’s worth. The app just randomly closes and when re-opened, anything that I was working on is lost and I’m back at the home screen for the app. This is compounded with the fact that my partner was charged for their part of my shared membership. The view in the new updated version has been confusing and no matter what I open or click (when I can keep the app open for more than thirty seconds), the notification indicator on the Discuss button will not clear. It appears that I have answers or activities that have gone un-viewed, but I’ve clicked on every single item (while re-opening the app after hundreds of crashes) and the notification will not clear. It continues to indicate that I have unanswered questions or activities. My partner is having the same problem.

Great Connection App. This app is amazing, it’s been so nice to have something to talk about with my partner once in awhile and see how we each think about different issues. I also commend the excellent customer support which has been timely, respectful, and helpful. It seems silly to me that people are getting upset at the $75 to have premium access for a year. Is your relationship not worth it? Although it would be nice to have a monthly option for some people. Highly recommend for couples that are in a distance relationship. More things to talk about is a blessing. This app is a great way to bring up conversations that you may have had a difficult time starting on your own! Cons: App does have some bugs, but they are actively working on them and in the past 8 months I have seen great improvement in reliability (Dec 2022- May2023) There are some questions that come up that are basically just reworded from previous months. Can’t say I expect better because there are only so many questions you can answer. Payment, it wasn’t clear that you only needed one. Premium for a couple so we had each paid. They reimbursed me for one and I greatly appreciate them for doing this.

SO FUN. Towards the end of my last relationship, I saw an ad for this app. I downloaded it just to check it out, already pretty over that relationship. Months later, I get into this new relationship and it’s WILDLY AMAZING. So I suggested this app to him, just to see what he would think of it. Guys are kind of hesitant towards this kind of thing. Anyway, WE LOVE IT. he actually thinks it’s so fun, we get to know more about on another, it’s like $15 (rounded up) a month to have a healthier relationship with your SO…. So yeah. I’d say it’s worth it. And I’m glad we started early in our relationship too because it’s really cool getting to look back at all of our previous quizzes, messages etc and really see our relationship transform into something unbelievable to me a year ago! Give it a try, you can cancel anytime 🤷🏻‍♀️

Do not do the free trial - charged me anyway. So I downloaded this app because my boyfriend has shown it to me and honestly it was great, we really enjoyed using it for the free trial period. The cost was just way too high for premium in my opinion and I couldn’t afford to pay that much money all at once as it does not allow you to do a monthly payment. So I went in and canceled the free trial the day before it stated it was going to charge me. It confirmed that I had canceled it and I thought everything was fine. I then notice on my bank statement the day after that the app charged me $81 for the premium subscription and there is no direct customer support on their site that I could find. I also then got a message from my bank asking if this charge was fraudulent and if I recognized it. It was obvious that i had canceled the trial and they charged me anyway and I am now having to dispute it with my bank. It’s almost Christmas and $81 is a lot of money to lose unexpectedly and not know if and when it will be returned. I really enjoyed this app at first and I am incredibly disappointed that this is what ended up happening. I would advise people not to use it if this is what they’re doing to people.

Repaired our marriage!. This is the first time I’ve ever gone out of my way to write a review. My husband and I have had a very hard year. With a loss of a child, different work schedules, etc. at one point I even lived with my best friend for 2 months. I genuinely thought we were going to break up. This app helped opened a new line of communication and got us talking on our own time. We love the games and how you can comment on the questions after you’ve answered. We’ve gotten closer than ever after we’ve started and it feels like how we did when we first started dating. I am so grateful for the app! We tried therapy, but it wasn’t the right structure for us. This is cheaper and the type of fun we needed in our relationship. We can answer on our own schedules, and have fun with it. We both have such a deeper understanding of each other. Thank you!

This app saved us. It’s crazy to think an app can save a marriage, but it did. My husband and I desperately needed counseling but just do not have the finances for it. I randomly saw an ad for this app and downloaded it. To my surprise, my husband was excited for it as well. We spent the entire first day answering questions and it opened a new door for us. To see in writing what the other is thinking has been very helpful. We do not do well with talking through our issues, but this was a different avenue that allowed us to be honest and not have the other person want to argue about who was right or wrong. We’ve been married 15 years and feeling like we are in the “roommate phase” of marriage, and it’s been rough. For the first time in a long time, we feel like communicating has been easy. We answered the same on soooo many questions, which has been fun because we are on the same page more than we thought.

Is this a joke!?. Reached out to their customer service that you can only contact via email to get a refund as I was charged twice once through the website and once through signing up through the App Store. I said I wanted to cancel through their website because it cost more money why would I pay more money when I can get it through the App Store cheaper for the first year and then it automatically renews. I was very specific with what I wanted they replied back telling me how to cancel my automatic subscription with Apple and telling me if I wanted to cancel with Apple I need to contact Apple’s customer service. They gave me zero information on their own website I’m not going to be charged twice and I can’t even use the app I cannot login I cannot create an account so here I am arguing trying to get back $57 on top of paying $37 for an app that I can’t even use for customer service that won’t even do what I’m asking them to do?! But don’t worry you can’t call anybody to complain about the fact that you said you wanted a refund and they’re just not giving it to you they’re just telling you to cancel with the cheaper option why would I do that give me my money back at this rate I don’t even want the app I just want my money back from everybody because why would I continue supporting the company who ignores what I’ve asked them to do and I’m paying for something I can’t even use

Love Love Love!. Absolutely love that an app like this exists. My significant other and I love the app and love that it was developed and rooted by professionals and research!! So many activities per relationship area, and it really serves as learning opportunities about each other , yourself and the relationships in whole. It also sparks conversation starters, and makes you connect! Speaking of connection, it’s the perfect way to feel connected even when both at work, as you can complete simple easy , short activities during lunch or breaks and your partner can do so too! One suggestion can be adding more choices to some of the multiple choice questions. Some I found to be limited! Overall, if you are willing to answer honestly, and take the time, I recommend this app 100%!

My two cents 🤔. I would like to see this branch out to all two person relationships. This could be extremely useful for parent/child relationships, siblings, cousins, steps or halves, in-laws, co-workers friends, anywhere there is some sort of connection of two. I’d absolutely use a form for in-laws. I think even age ranges would be good for mutual awareness. I bring this up because I have literally read some of the questions and thought wow if me and blank focused on that maybe we could understand each other or blank. It would be great if there was a “gift card” or a sliding scale. I have been trying to get couples counseling for 11 years and for different people it has never worked out. Usually money and transportation that causes problems w getting to a location if it’s possible to pay for. The insurance doesn’t cover couples. Or something for couples that are really taking time to work on their relationship and it shows in the app. Like mine wouldn’t qualify because the person obviously has not and will not make this a priority. They talk but never walk. Like getting the app but that’s it.

It’s so worth it. My bf and I have been together for 4 years. We are currently long distance and looking for ways to continue being intimate with each other despite the distance. I feel like we are already really open and honest with each other but this app has taken it to another level. It’s helps facilitate conversations that we haven’t thought of or convos that we may be unsure of how to bring up. I love that our answers to the “question sets” are locked until we both answer so that we aren’t biased by what the other person’s response is. It may seem like a lot to spend $70 for the year for it but man it’s so worth it. Just look at it like a date night, dinner+drinks and a tip and this app is for the whole year. Go with the year subscription (it’s cheaper than the monthly) and really just explore this app with your partner. We’re learning new things about each other and our relationship and I am loving it. I also love this app because when I’m using it I feel like those who created the app are really passionate about what they’re doing here. I feel like I would want to be apart of the company, I just love this product. The concept and execution are a dream, so I get why they charge what they do. It’s worth the money. We briefly tried another app, but it almost felt like it was created and no one went back to continue making it better. This is the real deal, and can be a great asset to your relationship. Highly recommend.

Beware of double charges. I purchased this app and premium subscription for my wife as a gift. After the trial I had ended, we were BOTH charged the $40 subscription fee. I explained this in a support channel through the Paired app, and was told that we both had purchased it. This was in fact, not true, as I purchased the only premium subscription, and followed the apps instructions to pair with my partner. The Paired support team has now informed me that I have to contact Apple to get my money back, even though the error was clearly in their app. We enjoy the app, but charging me an extra $40 to use it could cause problems in a relationship that the app is literally designed to avoid/overcome. Maybe that’s just good marketing? Update, as everyone can see, the support team seems to think that they are at no fault. Read the part where I said “the error was clearly in their app.” This has nothing to do with Apple, and everything to do with a coding error in the application.

How does this happen?. I would like to know why I had an account years ago and I deleted it. Now, I’m in a new relationship, I set up an account, pair with my current partner and ALL of the quizzes that I had answered before popped up as if I was just happy to flaunt what I had answered for during my old relationship. That’s an absolute slap in the face when I’m trying to improve my relationship that I have now and instead, it creates tension. It also makes no sense that it says “you’re deleting all of your data, progress, and relationship history within Paired”. Then goes on to say “deleting your account is irreversible. You won’t be able to restore it, even if you use the same credentials”. How can that be true at all when as soon as I paired with my partner, all of the old “data and progress” just so happened to pop up. So, I guess that data doesn’t really get lost and IS in fact restored as soon as you pair with a part er that is really interested in wanting to grow. All the progress that was entered in that was based on an old version of myself and is not even fair for someone that has grown so much individually to be reminded of where they were before. Very upset by this situation. Such a sick feeling to see the old quizzes pop up for someone that is so much better than where I was and who I was with to see. I hope nobody has to experience that kind of humility and embarrassment like I did tonight.

Been looking for something like this. Really happy with this app!. My girlfriend and I have been looking for a program like this to incorporate into our daily lives. We have a very healthy relationship, however are always trying to take action steps to improve it. I think it’s incredibly important to have an open channel of dialogue with my significant other and Paired makes it that much easier. We love the daily tips because they are easily digestible and they always focus on pertinent topics related to growing a relationship in a healthy way. The app also features a wide variety of courses you and your significant other can work on together. My girlfriend and I just finished the Relationship Foundations course and learned a lot about how to better support each other and resolve disagreements. Another interesting feature on Paired is the Daily Question, which newly populates every day. This question is usually posed by a certified professional and is intended to spark communication between you and your partner. My girlfriend and I regularly start our mornings by answering the question, and have found it to be a great conversation starter for the day. My girlfriend and I are huge fans of this app. I highly recommend the Paired Premium plan for any couple looking to grow in their relationship.

Such a positive. I saw this app being advertised on Instagram and I enjoyed the concept round it. My boyfriend and I downloaded it roughly a month ago and we had the free version for about 20 days until they offered the premium subscription for $37 a year just two weeks ago and I took the offer. This app, free or premium, has definitely brought us together, has made us talk, and has brought positive enjoyment to us. We are asked to share our favorites pictures, if we like sitting next or across from one another, at the end of the month we review the whole month overall and SO. MUCH. MORE! Now with the premium, we can access all the quizzes and since we live an hour away, see each other once a week, this makes us message one another and even call to discuss our answers. We feel so much closer and having a more in depth understanding of our feelings and thoughts. We both are happy to have found this app and use it every single day!

Design flaws make it complicated. We are only on day two and while the topics and quizzes have been OK so far the fact that you cannot chat and look at the quiz results at the same time is a detriment. A big part of my husbands communication style is fewer words/texts the better. You cannot chat and see the quiz results at the same time so either you have to have perfect sight memory so you know what you’re referring to, or you have to go back-and-forth between quiz results and chat room. Then the person reads your chat and also doesn’t know the quiz results that you’re referring to because they can’t see the quiz results and my comments at the same time. So again, back-and-forth back-and-forth. You need to be able to chat within each quiz results page or this is not going to be something that is sustainable with the current design. I’m glad I didn’t sign up for the year and invested $15 instead of $75

My boyfriend and I luv but…. The app and content are really awesome. There are just a few things that my significant other and myself would like to have seen done differently. The set up of the app it kinda funky and it not very user friendly. There are multiple areas of conversation that can happen all at once which causes the conversations to become lost in other messages. The Notification Center within the app is also hard to understand and is not very user friendly, making it hard to keep track of anything. From conversation discussions, to direct messages, or an update from your partner, the notifications are all scrambled within themselves. Also if you want to pay $80 a year for you and your partner you get the premium version, honestly I don’t even know what’s different from the general version to the premium version. I’m not sure if there even is one. Overall the app serves its purpose but it also needs improvement.

The Magic Elixir. I have been having major communication issues with my boyfriend for over a year now. He is not someone who is comfortable with talking about his feelings openly, and both of us having mental disorders creates obstacles I believe we wouldn’t have otherwise. This app has saved my relationship. To my surprise he downloaded the app and enjoys the quiz aspect. I was able to see his true feelings about situations that I had no idea were bothering him. The check in made me super happy to see that we are on the same page about certain things. It encourages talking points, and has us discussing about our answers every night. He has even started doing the writing prompts. The various podcast style helpful tips have helped me learn how to better our conflict resolution. I feel like we have a much better understanding of each other and all around so happy and actually enjoying our time together. Thank you so much for creating this app I look forward to using this every day

Cool Prompts, Poor Quality. My boyfriend and I have had the Paired app for almost a year. I recommend for an early relationship; there are thought-provoking questions and fun quizzes. However, something that has been driving me crazy: there have been multiple “bug” fix updates, yet still, every day, I have a notification in the “Discuss” section, and there is nothing new. All of my conversations and prompts have been seen by me, yet that notification never goes away. Furthermore, I do not receive notifications in the app when my partner DOES answer the question. Another “buggy” gripe: my partner never got a notification when I posted something to the Timeline function. He still wants to use the app, but I’m a person who can’t stand to see little red numbers in the top corners of apps, so the notification misses really turn me off. Get some better IT, folks.

Decent but not worth the price. I got this app for my wife and I, some background so this review makes since. My wife and I are long distance right now now unfortunately I’m still waiting on here visa so she can come to be with me in America. So I saw an add for this app and thought it would be great for us since we are still long distance and don’t actually get to see each in person as much as we would like because of the travel costs. So I paid for a month and it was fun it can give you fun things to talk about with your partner. The only reason I only give 3 stars is because I believe the price for this app is to high for what you get. Yes there’s fun things on the app and gives you fun things to talk about but to be honest it’s just not worth the price you can find free websites that have the same general conversation starters for free. I’d love to renew this if the cost was lower but it just doesn’t make since to me at it’s current price. It’s not a bad app it’s actually nice just not worth the cost to me.

LOVE THE APP, BUT CHARGED TWICE. I love the app. We have been together 32 years and always looking for ways to stay connected. Our relationships are worth the work, but in this busy world, even our best intentions end up on the back burner. This seems like a casual way to stay connected and I like how we can pick to do a quiz, do a question pack based on different categories, or share a tip. I can answer three questions at break, a couple more at lunch, a quiz in the evening and then my husband will get a notification and respond when he gets a chance and he usually wants to know right away how I responded because he can’t see my response until he answers. The downside is it charged my husband and I separately for a premium subscription. I sent an email to your app support and attached our two invoices, so I hope this issue gets resolved quickly and I can update my star rating. I’m afraid if I go thru Apple to report the problem, they will refund my money but remove the app.

Me and my husband (both ftm🏳️‍⚧️) LOVE this app but there’s no monthly payment option??🥹. As the title says, we love this app so much! We signed up for the free trial, and did SO many quizzes/activities, which helped us learn so much about each other that we never thought to bring up until then. We went to pay for the subscription after only a couple days of using the trial because we loved it that much, but saw there was only an option for a YEARLY cost of $60 instead of also including a monthly option.. We are currently living paycheck to paycheck, so we couldn’t dish out $60 right then and there, BUT we were willing to pay each month, until we saw there wasn’t an option to do so…:( If you guys ever do decide to add a monthly payment option, we would subscribe in a heartbeat!! I also think it would possibly help other people who may be in a similar situation as us, if that option was added! Only one thing that we were kinda upset about was that we answered soooo many activities (the open ended questions, specifically) right before our free trial ended, and as soon as it did, we couldn’t read/access ANY of each others answers that we hadn’t gotten a chance to read yet, which really sucked because we spent HOURSSS on this app answering them for each other, and were looking forward to seeing each others answers:( Other than that, this app is absolutely AMAZING! I’d give it 100🌟s if a monthly subscription option was added🥰🫶🏻

Simplistic. It’s okay. Some of the games are fun. But a good portion of the quizzes and such are super basic. For example, three of the six “Are you on the same wavelength?” quiz pack are just repetitions of that same question: “Are you and your partner on the same wavelength?” “Do you think you and your partner are on the same wavelength?” “Does your partner think you are on the same wavelength?” And so many of the quizzes are like this. If that’s enough to prompt you and your partner to have a good conversation about the topic, then great. But mostly my partner and I just talk about how terrible a lot of the content of this app is. Also, the sex questions are so basic that this app is barely for adults. On top of that, what they consider “kink” is ridiculously vanilla, it’s laughable. On the whole, I’m surprised that the questions and quizzes are so bland and nondescript, since they seem to have so many therapist/counselor types involved. It seems to me that they gave up making anything useful in an effort to be broadly appealing.

Update!. My previous review seems to have disappeared. But to update… I don’t know what happened, but I feel like my previous review, in which I took serious issue with the bland, uninteresting questions seems to have caused some sort of magic to happen. This is because the very day I received a response from the developer to my review, the daily questions suddenly became interesting, thought provoking, and rather challenging! In fact, they’ve been excellent!! I just upped my rating from 2 to 4 stars!! The only problem I have now is how the notifications and the discussion page don’t do a good job of showing which questions have been responded to. Sometimes there’s an indicator on the question, and sometimes there isn’t. It would also be much nicer if the answer screen for a question and the discussion for that question were the same screen. Just make the discussion a continuation of the answers, rather than a separate tab.

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Ummmm. Halfway through a quiz my partners name changed to some random guys name!!!! Now I'm not even sure if we are even receiving accurate answers from each other. Chat text also keeps disappearing and reappearing. Something really dodgy is going on with this app lately!!

Helpful. Helped to make my husband and I feel more connected while working away from each other. I look forward to reading his daily insights and it helps me to understand how he is feeling in our marriage.

Great. We love this app but it would be even better if notifications didn’t keep glitching. It’s hard to tell what questions your partner has responded to. The layout needs tweaking with question section plz. Not easy to navigate. Love this app though and it’s been lots of fun

Pretty cool!. Very user friendly app and the question per day does help drive conversations. I would like to answer more questions and quizzes but I definitely would not pay for the service

We love Paired! It's such an amazing app, we just wish the free trial lasted a bit longer!. I came across Paired by accident and signed up for the seven-day free trial instantly! We wanted to move over to premium, and there was an amazing deal happening for twenty-four hours, however, we missed it. Due to the pandemic, unfortunately, we've only got one income coming in. Paired is such a great app, but for the amount of money it costs for a yearly subscription, it's just too expensive for us right now. I would love to see the free trial go on for a bit longer, seven days just isn't enough! Look at Binge or Netflix, for example, you get a thirty-day free trial before deciding whether you want to pay a monthly fee to keep it. The seven-day free trial started helping our relationship quite a bit, so imagine what a thirty-day free trial would've done for us? We both love this app and would love a yearly subscription! We just don't have that kind of money to spend right now. Please give a longer free trial some thought, I've been reading some of the reviews and I think a lot more of us would move over to premium in a heartbeat had we just had that extra bit of time with Paired! Because from what my partner and I have seen already, it is so worth it.

Shifty. They used to let you answer the free daily question late as long as your partner had answered it in time, but they no longer allow this. If this is just a bug that can be fixed, please fix it. If your intent is to make us pay just to answer one question a day, then this appp is hyper capitalism in action.

Pc. Not getting notifications properly even when all notifications switched on, not updating fast enough when partner is waiting on responses

Needs monthly subscription option. Enjoying the app, but paying for it annually in the current economic environment is hard to do. Need to have weekly/monthly subscription options; otherwise tapping out unfortunately.

Great information and thought-provoking questions. Quality app! My only gripe is that the streak function seems to be broken, in that it resets to 0 each day even after filling the daily “love meter”.

Overrated. The subscription is just too expensive for what it is so I have the free plan, which only allows you to have one conversation per day and they’re always questions and very boring. Other types of conversations like quizzes and games seem really nice but I guess they’re only available on the paid plan. Will probably delete it soon.

Be wary of signing up to trial. I signed up for a trial, then tried to delete my subscription (they make it difficult). I was then charged a full years subscription of $99. A hard blow when most apps charge monthly and there was no email reminder of the free trial ending. I am extremely disappointed, and have tried to get a refund through apple. Will not recommend this app to anyone based off my experience.

Excellent app. This is an absolutely great app for couples. Gets conversations going about things you may not have even thought to talk about or issues that might be a little awkward to raise. The creators reply to emails super quick and are always looking to help. My relationship was pretty good already and even we have benefited from this. Worth the investment!!

LOVE!!. Omg boyfriend and I love this app! being in a long distance relationship it's a fast fun and easy way to connect us once during the day🤍The questions are super good in variety and love the new feature of sending little gifts to each other!!! 🎁 100% 5/5 stars ⭐️ In a update I'd love to be able to send a short message (maybe limited characters) with the gift, just as an idea that would be REALLY cool!!!!🎁 Eg: "missing you🥹" is hugging you

recommend using the 7 day free trial. Covered some good areas to strengthen your relationships, I wish there was more topics/questions though for the price you pay.

Very boring. The question are not edgy and the psychology is boring. An app can be magical in the way that you will loose hours using it. Rewards on an app can literally change pathways in a brain. These tools could help create brilliant games that manipulate relationships. This app is vague and boring.

Very helpful questions. Lots of good things on here and getting 1 free question a day is good 😊

App’s fine but premium prompts are annoying. Like the app itself is fine, but the premium prompts are annoying. I’ll never pay, period, so an option that says “you may as well stop annoying me because I’m not never going to pay money for an app” would be prescient. Other 2-3* - fine.

It helps. The app works to improve communication. There's a few paragraphs I've wrote already that have been cathartic and I'd love my partner to read it and love me. I think it's a great thing that there isn't a psychologist reviewing my paragraphs so far because I think they'd peg me for something but I'd rather listen to my actual psychologist for that one soo, so far 5/5 👌

Way too expensive for the value.. I love the concept but the reality is I’d never pay so much for essentially a slow quiz/game for couples. I’m sure there’s more value than I’ve been made aware of but you can hardly experience it in the 7day trial and there is no way I’m dropping over $120 just to check something out

Great app but keeps crashing. Only rating two stars because I am cancelling the free trial. I refuse to be billed and my husband be billed too just to have the app crash after every single quiz or question. It’s also not worth the amount for premium. $124 is ridiculous.

Why make it free if it’s not?. Free to download but not free to use. You get one question a day and nothing else on this app. Everything else is a paid feature. Huge let down. App also keeps bugging you to give them your info.

great, but. this app is great and me and my partner have been using it for about a year now. however in a recent update it got rid of the ability to catch up on daily questions that my partner has answered without paying for premium. my partner answers every day but i don’t have the time to do that so usually i’d go through general chat and tap on their answer and it’d take me to answer the question or quiz. but now that they don’t show up in general chat anymore they’re infinitely in the “awaiting your answer” section and i don’t have the money to pay for premium to be able to answer them

Took money without consent. I tried to cancel 24 hours before the end of our free trial period but the app didn’t provide the option, it said only my partner could cancel. (Have screenshot as proof). My partner cancelled successfully, but then I was mysteriously charged for a full years subscription. I’m contesting it with Apple, but the company gives off scammy vibes. A week’s free trial before a huge financial investment is automatically deducted, when it’s extremely difficult to cancel with no cancel button in the app? That doesn’t pass the pub test.

Really cool. Funny and awesome app. Some bugs with chat messages, for a service that you pay for they should fix it asap

Not a fan of apps that offer free trials and then charge straight away. Lucky we set a reminder to cancel the subscription before we were charged $125! Not worth it in my opinion. The app didn’t make us feel closer.

Really helpful!. It’s so nice to have an app that helps us communicate without having to have long hard conversations to find these types of questions and things to appreciate and share together. Instead, we can just focus on the good from the start and feel connected in spending this time together and on each other. Really lovely app 😊

A great addition to our relationship. It took me a while to get into this but now it’s something I look forward to and have really helped communication between us especially with kids and life interruptions. We talk all day via the app which really helps us feel closer and carryover to the bedroom has been great.

Overpriced. My partner and I really enjoy using the app, but just will not pay for premium because it’s so overpriced. It’s extremely expensive.

Constant notifs are annoying. This app is good, fun and well designed but the notifications are a lot. The ability to limit them is needed, I don’t need a reminder to use the app first thing in the morning, it’s not healthy.

Great content but grammar confusing. The games are great but reviewing the answers are very confusing with the grammar. Hard to determine who said what and about which member of the couple. Should be able to insert names ie. Name would like it when you do X or what would name like you to do to them

One question a day for free is just not enough. I understand that this app is so beneficial, I can definitely see that and that a lot of work goes on behind the scenes and thats why it is a subscription. But one question a day is just poor. Maybe try having a entire free section with more then one thing so that people can benefit from a little more then on question, I think if there was a little more free content then people would be more willing to pay a bit more to continue to use the extra features. But one question is not worth the download and getting excited that you can he'll your relationship and then get so disappointed after you make that account!!!!

AMAZING. I love this app so much. My partner and I have had it for over a year with countless days of streaks. I’ve learnt so much from my partner. This is really beneficial for your relationship, since it saves time for you to think about what to learn from your partner each day!

Distance and chat. This app was amazing when I was away and we navigated long distance. We learnt a lot and discovered new things. The chat feature being removed is bad though we used to discuss answers all the time bring it back!!!

Not working. App worked for 7 days then just stopped. Was enjoying it till that point. If you want an app that last 7 days then this is the one for you. 🤷‍♂️

Way too Expensive!. I enjoy the free daily questions and prompts but the annual subscription is way too expensive for what the app offers. I’d only consider paying if it was 25% of it current price.

Love it - but bring back community answers!. It’s been a great app to help get inside and understand my partner’s mind; even five years later I’m still learning new things! However we have a gazillion apps as well as in person to be able discuss our answers, what we loved was reading the good, bad and ugly from the community answers. Sometimes it gave us ideas on how we could better our relationship, sometimes it gave us a laugh. Please bring it back

Not terrible, not great. I get they need to make money and stuff but in the free version you get 1 quiz/question a day.. I think they need to make more available in the free version because I think the concept of this app is great, however, the premium version is very pricey, and for people that can’t afford it.. would be good if the people who had the free version got a little bit more out of the app! Maybe even just some articles about different relationship topics in relation to the question/quiz the user answered that day! That’s all, otherwise am enjoying the app!🙂

Payment taken on free trial. I was recommended this app for myself and my partner - they offered a free trial, which we signed up for, only for them to take $24 each out of our account! And then only gave the option of a yearly subscription. Definitely not impressed!

like but why so expensive???. had the app for a week free trial, i'm super unhappy but also glad i was broke enough that when $129 tried being taken out of my account, it didn't go through. why the hell would it all come out in one go? it said it would be a monthly payment. otherwise my partner and i love it, it starts excellent conversations. i just don't need it taking over $100 that i don't have....

Loving it. We are on day 4 and are really enjoying the app. It’s definitely helping us

Free App is great.. So we love the free app and I would definitely go to the paid app but really feel that it’s way too expensive at the correct price. The daily quizzes and questions make it a fun way to delve a little deeper and start off a bigger conversation.

Does not warn you free trial will end. Cancelled but still took money out. I got the free trial to this app after it said it would warn me a couple days before I was charged. It didn’t :/. I was then charged $100 at which point the charge bounced and I canceled the subscription. I checked my bank a couple days later and they tried again - successfully taking $100 after I cancelled. Don’t get this app- don’t get the free trial- $100 is too much money.

Great app! Besides 1 thing. My partner and I downloaded the app and it’s done everything and more for us both. The only disappointing thing is that we both need to pay for the subscription. $10AUS a month per person really isn’t that bad especially if it’s bringing us closer together. I just think it’d be fairer if the subscription was per couple. Other then that one thing. Fantastic

Great app, maybe better with more reaction options in chat. Would love to see some more emojis in the reactions in chats. I don’t have premium at the moment so that might be why I don’t have access to the full range of emojis but you could add 🫂 and 💞would be very good.

It’s good. It’s definitely good, my partner and I have been using this for a fair while now. And have the premium version witch after lots of use I still feel like is very overpriced. Most the the quizzes are very repetitive and we find ourselves just skipping the questions we’ve answers multiple times before and in turn barely use it anymore because it’s all just the same sort of thing. The free version is more than enough in my opinion, I wish I didn’t fork out all that Money. Great idea though

Price. I rated a two star not because the app is awful, but because once you download the app you quickly realise you are bricked out of everything except 1 question a day, unless of course you pay yet another subscription. I understand the developers need to make money but you are losing many customers simply because of the subscription.

Long-distance staple. Long distance is hard, harder than you think going into it especially when lockdowns and boarder closes keeps you further apart. regardless of how strong the relationship is, for me it was inevitable that we would hit roadblocks in our communication, effort, and feeling connected to each others everyday life. This app has so far really helped bridge that gap in showing us where our faults and insecurities were and have helped us connect in a similar way to when we were together. Worth every dollar that the premium account costs.

Not worth the money. I really don’t think this app is worth the money. We use it most days but a lot of the questions feel surface level and better suited to couples who are new and in the honeymoon period to get to know each other better. Might be better apps out there for married folk

love this but …. app is so good but some questions do not relate to my relationship. They are very heterosexual oriented and when you sign up for paired it asks all these questions but they don’t cater at all. i would really like some alternative questions. i do think this app is excellent for relationships but a couple of tweaks would make it good for all types of relationships

Amazing. This app has been big for me and my partner. A lot of the time we are too tired to think of a topic to talk and converse about. Other than work and general life duties. This has inspired us to connect on a dropper level and has taught us soo much about each other. ther

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Wish it wasn’t focused on premium. Honestly I love the app, my partner and I find it amusing and it’s gotten us to talk about some things we haven’t before. It also made me realize things about myself and different views my partner and I have. My only issue is everything is premium. I wish there was a little more leniency on non premium like maybe 2 questions a day rather than one. Overall it’s a really good app

I paid for premium. If you want this for free you will be able to create a time line of your relationship plus get one free question for you and your partner to answer each day. They are fun, intriguing, and sometimes spicy. Definitely recommend for couples looking to build a deeper relationship or for those in a long distance relationship. They ask amazing questions and you’re partner can’t see your answer until they answer the question. With premium you can have access to 1000+ questions and quizzes. My only recommendation to the app developers is that they create a “both” option for some of the you or them quizzes when they ask “who would be most likely to..”

My wife and I divorced. After doing this app together for nearly a year, my wife never felt closer… to her boyfriend. We are now divorced. She took the kids, the house, and even my dog. Thank you so much Paired. My life is now a train wreck.

login. not letting me login even after i tried deleting and reinstalling

Price too high. Price too high

Too much $$$. I agree with others - the idea is great. I eagerly downloaded to share with my partner and was surprised to see how much it costs to even be able to do anything. Nothing is offered for free and the price of a subscription is way too high.

Great. I use the free app because the subscription price is a bit high but I still highly recommend the non paid version. The non paid version gives you a daily quiz or question for eachother and we are always haveing great conversations from the questions and some of them have been really helpful to find out. I think the free version is great because it is one a day and becomes a healthy habbit for me and my partner to do every morning.

Terrible app , awful pricing , complete rip off.. I downloaded this app last weekend , was supposed to be a one month free trial . One week later I’m charged $126? Rip off. Please save your time and money and do not download this ap

A great tool to build the connection BUT... If I had the option to purchase monthly instead of annually, I would. Why not offer that?

Lost interest after a week. This app was more of a chore. Lost interest in it after a week. Not worth the money

High cost. It’s quite costly for what it is. It’s fun at first but wears off quickly. Many discussion questions when I’d prefer this or that type ones.

Amazing potential!. My boyfriend and I have been trying this app and we really like it so far. However the price is pretty absurd haha. Also it glitches a lot. Missing messages and crashes.

Not for everyone but for anyone serious. I see a lot of negative reviews here and mostly complaining about the cost. I want to start by saying that first you have to consider how serious you are about your relationship. You can’t really put a value on salvaging a relationship, getting to know your partner or learning more about a long time loved one. In the grand scheme of things people spend more money on take out and video games without a second thought. Anyone who is complaining I automatically assume isn’t serious about their relationship or it’s a “passing interest”. I personally was skeptical of this app when it was suggested by my partner. I’m generally a pretty open person and felt like we should be able to take about most thing. I felt the app was a waste of time… I was wrong. We were able to talk about things we probably wouldn’t have thought of to learn more about one another in a safe and simple way. The quizzes can be eye opening and allow for great conversation regarding how you view things, some of the questions are offbeat or interesting that you likely wouldn’t normally ask. There’s a whole slew of “sexuality” questions for people who maybe have trouble with voicing their needs or preferences. The app is as advertised and looks to update its contact regularly enough. I would not recommend it to everyone but I definitely would to couples who are looking to take their relationship to the next level or who have been together a while and are looking for another way to connect, whether things are getting monotonous or they’re just looking to do a deeper dive. I’ve enjoyed the conversions this app hassparked immensely and hope it will for you too?

Stats. Please bring back the calendar that shows our daily streak. I pay for this app yearly. Best money spent. But like stated above, please bring back the monthly streak stats. Also, why is there an update every second day? So annoying.

Love the app ! But…. The app is great and we love it but we were thinking about the “You or Me ?” games and the fact that it would be great if those had “both” and “neither” options Other than that, it really is perfect !

Bad price point. Way too little value for cost. There would have to be much more to it for me to want to spend the equivalent of 10 nice dates on an annual ‘subscription’ (you don’t even get permanent access, oof)

Love it! But missing one thing…. Two months in and my husband and I really enjoy this app. It was cheaper than therapy, and has opened up the communication in our relationship so much! I love all the different games and questions, and like that I have the option to choose a different question or quiz if the daily one doesn’t feel useful or relevant. It has also given us new ideas for dates, expressing our love languages and even ideas in the bedroom… People are complaining that you don’t get many options with the free version, maybe those people aren’t really looking to invest in their relationship… A lot of work clearly goes into this app, and like I mentioned, it’s way cheaper than therapy (not that it should replace therapy for those who really really need it), so it’s worth it for me. I doubt we will continue this app past a year of usage, only because it really is helping so much already, and we just won’t need it anymore! The ONLY thing that drives me crazy, is that there is no in app chat. I would LOVE the ability to chat directly in this app to discuss our answers and stuff when we can’t be in person. It’s a pain to have to share or screen shot the question and answers to text and discuss it that way. I feel like it would be a major improvement to have in app chat, and would allow for immediate, easy, deeper conversation on the games and questions answered.

Not worth the price. Nothing about this app justifies the cost.

Great, but has too many bugs to pay. We have tried the free trial for this app and have been greatly appreciating it, however, there are bugs that makes us feel uncomfortable when paying such a hefty price. When playing games and answering questions, not all answers show up, which contradicts the whole point of this app. There usually is one question missing (we will enter our answers but the question will not appear in the results It really is a shame because we’ve loved learning more about each other and how we see the other using the games, but if we won’t be able to fully use the app, it seems unfair to pay such a big price

Super lame. Charged my credit card early for my 7 day trial

Great Features, but Needs More Inclusive Questions. I recently downloaded the Paired app and there are a few aspects that I really enjoy. Firstly, the relationship timeline is a fantastic way to keep track of important milestones. The quizzes and games add a fun and interactive element to the app. I also appreciate the exclusive feel of the app, as it's like having our own private social media platform. Additionally, the steak counting feature is a unique touch that I find quite enjoyable. However, my main concern is that the app seems to heavily cater to long-term relationships. My girlfriend and I have just started dating a couple weeks ago and I subscribed to the app with the hope of enhancing our connection. Since we only see each other once a week, I thought this app would be ideal. Unfortunately, I feel that the questions could be better tailored to cater to relationships in their early stages. It would be great to have more separation of questions that focus on basic aspects to help us get to know each other better. Questions like "tell me a time your partner did this at your house" are not applicable to us since we don't live together. Responding with "this hasn't happened yet" or leaving the question unanswered affects our streak, which can be frustrating. Moreover, I believe that this app has the potential to be incredibly helpful for individuals with ADHD, as it facilitates remembering important details about their partner. It would be wonderful if the questions reflected a wider range of relationship dynamics rather than being primarily geared towards married couples. As a 22-year-old male without children, still living with my parents, I would appreciate more questions that are relevant to my situation. Overall, I find Paired to be a promising app, but I strongly urge the developers to address these concerns. I believe that making the questions more inclusive and diverse will greatly enhance the app's appeal to users in different relationship stages and circumstances. Failure to do so might prompt me to cancel my subscription. Thank you for your attention to these matters, and I look forward to seeing improvements in future updates. Thank you

False billing. So I wanted to try the 7day free trial but was automatically billed within the first 12 hours for a month.

Horrible app, STAY AWAY !!. This is very expensive for what it does. Honestly, this would be something to ‘maybe’ use for free, but to pay for it- NOT WORTH AT ALL !! Stay away.

Love the app but wish it wasn’t so expensive for the paid version. I would 100% pay if it wasn’t so expensive. Having said that, I do enjoy the free version. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and I always get excited whenever I see he answered a question. Again, I really wish the subscription wasn’t so expensive. If they just made it cheaper I’m sure they’d make so much more money. Maybe it’s because of the conversion rate from CAD to US? Either way, sending an offer or discounted rate would be amazing! Thank you!!

The subscription price is too high. The app is great and I love the concept but you really don’t get access to anything on the free version. After the week trial when you return to the regular version it’s just really boring. The price of subscription is so high and honestly I didn’t see enough of a positive influence on my relationship to justify the price. Please add some more free content instead of one question a day and one quiz a week.

Subscription price is high. I love the concept of the app. It’s really cool to have some quiz about each other. But with the free version you have close to nothing… without paying it’s boring and you can’t practically do nothing. Add free stuff ..!

Deceptive free trial. I don’t recommend this app to anyone due to their malicious ‘free trial’ practice. Before our 7 day window for free trial was over, we still got charged the full amount even after cancelling the subscription. I’ve already started the procedure of requesting a chargeback from my cc provider as this is a misrepresentation of services. Now if they are going to go through this much effort to steal your money because that is what it is, theft, I wouldn’t trust these people to provide any meaningful information to others or information that you can’t easily google yourself. Shame on this company and shame on the App Store for letting them continue

App is ok. The questions can be good but vague at times. You can go at your own pace and answer questions that are easy and work your way up. My only complaint is that some of the questions are so vague…so much that you and your partner may interpret them completely different. Not good, cause all you discuss is how different you took the question. In app reviews and suggestions would be good to improve this app

Very cool. Just after very expensive to stay on the app

Application décente. Je l'ai reçue en cadeau de ma femme et il y a certains sujets que nous pouvons discuter pour nous améliorer en tant que couple. Bien qu'avec un coût un peu élevé.

Loved this app…. In a long distance relationship and this app has been such a blessing for us. Its both fun and though provoking and sparks conversations that you may not normally have. We pay for the premium subscription and it feels like everytime they add a new feature, they take away something else. First they removed check ins which was HORRIBLE! And now they’re planning to remove the “discuss” feature! If they keep removing features, I’ll be looking into different apps when it comes time to renew my subscription. BRING BACK CHECK INS! 😢

Brutal. My boyfriend app constantly crashes; can’t believe I paid for this. Never shows us each others results. Not linear or journey like at all.

Cash grab.. App is almost exclusively premium.

Finding questions partner has answered. Need to make it easier to find what questions your partner has answered donno why it was removed

Worth it. My partner and I had some tech issues at the beginning but the customer support was so fast to respond and got us up and running in no time. The app is really easy, even for my tech challenged hubby. And we love the content. In a week of use, we already feel like we are starting to hear each other better. Excited to continue on and see where it takes us.

Not relationship building. Inappropriate content that is detrimental to building intimacy and connection in a relationship.

please read this.. i like it. my partner likes it. the subscription isn’t too much, if you check it out there’s different bundle deals and we got one for like $112 for 1 year. you only pay it once and get you everything inclusive for 12 months. i think that’s the best way you could make a bundle deal, these people are too soft i guess or just broke. it’s not hard to put aside $100 once for you and your relationship.

You took money from me. I had no intention of renewing my subscription and you guys took it out of my account without my permission. I find it very unacceptable I just tried to go shopping and couldn’t get anything because my account was empty because of this app.

Free version is not the greatest.. My partner and I are using this app to try as we’re parents to a couple little ones to give us a little bit of communication? The questions are ok and we both enjoy answering them. Some questions are kind of boring but we still answer them serious or make a joke out of it. We have the free version which gives you 1 question daily and 1 quiz a week. If you want to full version it’s roughly $119CAD a year… in this economy that’s a lot of freakin money for an app…

They will take your money if you aren’t careful. My girlfriend and I signed up for the trial version and in order to do so you need to agree to the subscription that will be charged to your account in a week’s time. Life got busy and a week later I se 90$ taken from my credit card. I try and cancel but by then it is too late and I can’t even get a refund. Cool concept but this is a scam.

Not enough free content. 2 quizzes free is not enough to have a great idea of the product. Really disappointed, was hoping to explore more content before they ask you to pay to get the « premium content » .

Great app for facilitating connection. This app is great! Yes, there’s only one new thing a day, but there’s a backlog of content if you really want to do a lot. Some of the questions are a bit vague and sometimes they don’t apply to our circumstances, yet we are still able to have a discussion around them, which leads us to other tangential issues that do apply to us. The point is not the activity, but the discussion and interaction with your partner. We have had so many chats about things that never occurred to us to talk about. We have been able to clarify our feelings and positions on matters, and we’re been discovering new things about each other. And there is a lot of information around the research that went into developing the questions, so that you can understand why it’s worth answering and discussing with your partner. The price isn’t cheap, but it’s nowhere near the cost of therapy. My partner travels for work a lot and this app gives us great discussion topics when we’re too tired to think for ourselves, or it lets us connect in small ways when one or both of us is otherwise tied up with work. Great for couples of all types (straight, gay, etc), but the creators could expand it to allow for poly relationships - communication is so important in that dynamic. Bravo for a great app. Now don’t screw it up, please. :)

Garbage cash grab. Any positive reviews are bots.. waste of money and time. don’t bother downloading

Unfriendly towards Polyamory. Cant lie, Im pretty disappointed. This app seemed like the perfect thing to help ease the difficulties of having multiple partners. As someone who love having so many partners, it can be hard to keep track of them and their needs and their interests. Unfortunately this app does not allow anyone to fully unleash the potential of their heart to give and love. Instead it restricts, judges and condemns love until it fits into their perfect little relationship box. Do not download if you are a free spirit OR a tender lover. You will only be let down, as me and all my partners were. Shame! Thanks and all the best, Phil!

Totally worth it. I’ve used this app for a few years now and it absolutely has had a positive impact on my relationship with my nesting partner. We do have the premium version but it’s absolutely worth it. This is a great tool to help foster and maintain intimacy, I recommend it to everyone.

10/10 DO NOT RECOMMEND. Why advertise an app for free if it costs $20 a month? You have no choice but get a subscription to it. On question a day and a quiz on Sunday is all you get otherwise. There’s TONS of better apps that you and your partner can use that are 75% free if not completely free. If you’ve got the $300 CAD for the yearly sub, go for it. But the app is a complete scam otherwise. Just a waste of time and space on your device.

Gone downhill. I used to really like this app a year or two ago. The questions were insightful and made you think as well as helped with connection. Now the questions are awful and pointless

Deeper Understanding. Paired has helped my husband and I develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and of each other.

So expensive. Definitely not willing to pay $113 a year per person for this app. Not worth it

Unbalanced and boring. Basically this app is useless without a subscription (which is over $100). There isn’t a lot of content for couples who have been together for years and are already married.

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Great daily activities and legit expertise for keeping relationships strong. I tried this app out, a little skeptical at first given that I do not enjoy couples therapy. To my genuine surprise I found that the daily questions were actually fun to go through with my partner, and we’ve discovered things about each other that have been really insightful. The audio course are the perfect length too—just a few minutes long but a ton of helpful information, delivered by experts in the field, such as Pepper Schwartz. I think this app would benefit anyone in a relationship who wants to create more closeness or learn how to manage conflict and communication. I would say it’s less couples therapy and more something that will prevent you needing couples therapy!

My fiancé and I love this app. We have had it for about five days now and it’s actually opened up our eyes more to each other and actually talk about how we are feeling and communicate on things better and understand one another 10/10 recommend this app if you feel like your relationship isn’t struggling I still recommend because we thought we were all good but we realized we could be a bit toxic and we agreed to try this app and it’s going great now we actually talk about how we feel and make sure each other are doing great and we’ve never felt more connected

I wanted to like this... I wanted to like this app and enjoy it with my husband, but it just wasn’t that great. I imagined being able to type out answers and it being something fun to do every now and then with my husband, but you can’t treat it as just an option when you’re paying a subscription. And the quizzes that make you pick a multiple choice answer should allow you the option of explaining your answer with context or else what’s the point? A lot of the questions were too simple and didn’t allow an option for explaining which meant things could be easily misunderstood by lack of context. But mostly I didn’t appreciate the steep subscription price for what it’s actually offering. I think the idea was awesome, though, just a poor execution of it. An app like this would be ACES with some tweaking and it being FREE. Otherwise it’s just a waste of money and ultimately a waste of time. 👎🏻

Amended Review. Thank you Paired for taking your user’s opinions into consideration and reverting back to allowing partners to answer questions that their partners already answered!! Excited to continue to use this app the better my relationship with my partner. Old review: Before the newest update I would have given Paired 5 stars. There used to be a legacy chat where if I or my partner answered the question but the other didn’t you could go back. Now we have go pay $120 if my partner wants to answer a question I did and he didn’t??? It’s sad, we have to find a different app now. We used to use it every day and it brought us a lot closer as a couple. Let us poor people have healthy relationships too!

Enjoyable it really does add a spark!. Like most of the reviews the price point is outrageous however, if you can catch the app on sale please make the purchase after the 7 day free trail I promise you won’t regret it! It keeps the relationship fun and each moment becomes teachable/learnable. I feel like majority of us are always on our phones any way and not really interacting with each other due to responsibilities so if you and your partner have to work a lot or live long distance, this is a great way to keep up the fun and continue to learn about one another!

Improves communication. This app has been amazing for me and my partner. It’s easy to incorporate into your day and I love that there are questions, quizzes, and games. Me and my partner love the quizzes because they make it clear how you and your partner feel about certain things when you might not have even known they felt differently than you about it. It has helped my partner and I to understand each other better and have more patience because we feel more connected. I love that there’s upgrades available for purchase but you can still get help and utilize this app with the free version. For all of these reasons and more I’d recommend this app to any couple whether you’re in a good place or not to improve your relationship 💞🥰

Fun app but some software issues. This app has been so great! Even was fun for my relationship prior to us actually officially dating. It was a recommendation from a friend on the app and while dating my partner we tried it. Now we’re in a relationship and paired brought us closer in the beginning. Unfortunately the app has been buggy lately. Some of our answers don’t show for the questions. The app sometimes crashes when trying to open questions. It’s upsetting since we paid for the subscription because we enjoy the product. Hope these software issues get fixed soon and we can see our answers again.

Payment Plans. Such a great app! My boyfriend and I have enjoyed using Paired for the few days we’ve had access to it through the free trial. It has helped us learn so much about each other and deepen our connection in such a short amount of time that it’s honestly fascinating. The only reason I have rated the app three stars is because the only premium subscription option is annual. When I went to look at plans and prices at the end of my free trial, I was disappointed that the only option was a $75 annual renewal, as I can’t afford this option. Once I selected to cancel due to cost, they offered me 40% off, which is great, but I would still prefer there to be a monthly subscription, even if it meant paying a little extra in the long run.

Where are the new conversations?!. The concept of this app is awesome, most topics are good, some are kinda weird and useless. My biggest problem though is that I can almost never find the new free daily conversation! And I’ll get annoying notifications telling me to do xyz conversation and I’ll open the app and I can’t even find it anywhere. Even when I tap directly on the notification on that specific daily conversation, it won’t even open to that conversation… which also leads me on a man hunt to find it and then not being able to find it. It’ll also notify me sometimes to do the free daily conversation or else I’ll love me streak even though I’ve done it already.

Love!. After almost 35 years of marriage, my husband and I are still learning about one another. Paired gives a great structure for daily connection. As we move into yet another phase of our life together, our partnership is inevitably changing. The conversations we have based on the questions brought up by Paired help us talk through topics we probably wouldn’t have otherwise. Approaching potentially fraught situations I am more relaxed knowing we’re a great team. (Gentle suggestion: Once the day’s question is answered, please turn off notifications to answer. If I answer on my phone, I’m still notified to answer on my iPad and vice versa. A small annoyance.)

I'm a bit disappointed. Love this app and happily paid for the year subscription for me and my partner. But today, she has no access to it and I un-paired her to re-pair her and we lost all of our progress and chats. Needless to say I cancelled my re-subscription and am pretty frustrated that only a week into it, immediately after the free 7 days, we are now having issues. I've contacted support but am pretty disappointed that a company that is charging this price doesn't even have a phone number to call so there's no way to get even immediate help on something that could probably be fixed within a few minutes and I'll have to wait probably days just to get a small issue resolved. Bummer. This was going really well. It's unfortunate that it's leaving a bad taste in my mouth so soon into even using the app. Two stars because I love what this is about and loved the app itself when I actually worked, but because it's so soon into use and I've already paid for a whole year and lost all progress, I can't justify giving it a better rating at this time. I'm disappointed.

Great content, but the app needs a little polish.. Honestly, the questions and quizzes and article in this app are fantastic. My wife and I have so much fun and even after 13 years together, are learning new things. It’s helped us grow together emotionally and physically. However, the actual app needs a little polish. A few examples: 1. Notifications always only ever take you to the main page of the app. Even if the notification was telling you about a new quiz or that your partner answered a question. Always the Home Screen. So you will often lose what you’re looking for. 2. Some of the quizzes simply don’t apply to us, and I wish there was a way to dismiss them. For example, neither my wife nor I fall are LGBTQ+. I’m glad those questions and quizzes are there for those who want them, but I do not need them. Same with items about children. My wife and I are not having children. I would like to be able to “dismiss” items that are not relevant. Again, the actual content is absolutely fantastic. We’d just love if there was a little more polish on the UI side.

Answers not saved. I like the concept of the app, I think using it could really benefit couples. However, the app frequently does not save answers. I just started using the app with my wife and was trying to take it seriously by putting a lot of thought into my answers. I went through one of the quizzes and answered every question. I could even review my answers for a little while. Unfortunately after about an hour after I finished the quiz, 4 out of my 10 answers were gone. It’s not easy to find time throughout the day to do these things. But it’s worth it for my marriage. But when you put time, which is limited, into it and it turns out to be wasted then what’s the point?

Best communication of my marriage. My husband and I have been married for almost three years. Our life has gone super fast since we said, “I do.” we have three kids and super busy jobs. Communicating with so much stress has been difficult. We have been on the brink of divorce because of how unhappy we've been. This app, in the last four days, has helped us reconnect and feel heard by each other. It's low pressure but helps us gain insight into what it's like on the other side of our relationship. I'm shocked at how close we feel and with how much easier it is to communicate with my best friend and the love of my life.

Perfect app for couples. Honestly when my boyfriend suggested it I didn’t think we would keep up with the daily conversations but they are always insightful or fun for us to answer, I look forward to them and remind him myself. I love how you can mark important dates in your relationship and it gives you how long you’ve been together! I wish there was a little more in both the paid and free version since you can pay to get access to whatever you want and it just kind of pushes back the daily conversations.

Favorite App Ever!. I was very hesitant at first because the price is kind of high and I’m not a fan of subscription services, but it’s worth every penny! My girlfriend and I were already very open with each other and communicated well, but paired gives questions and other creative ways to bring up topics we never would have thought to cover! It’s allowed us to learn tons of new things about each other, and also correct some ideas we were mistaken about before. It’s a fantastic tool for a couple to grow in tons of different ways, highly recommended!

Said they would remind me before subscribing me for premium but didn’t. So tired of dishonest app developers. Reached out to them for an explanation and got auto responses, none of which addressed the issue. [update after developer response. Note, their response does not acknowledge my issue, which is that they tell you they will notify you to remind you the trial is ending before charging. They don’t, actually, do this. They’re hoping people will either not notice the charge or will give up trying to get a refund when they learn that the developer can’t issue refunds and they must go through apple’s process, which is a bit convoluted. What’s extra annoying is that I emailed them to ask what happened and in their response to me they just ignored my complaint and wouldn’t address their deceptive practices. So twisted.]

The best app for a relationship workout!. It’s fun… and sometimes you learn something about eachother that actually helps you gain insight. My love and I actually look forward to it every day and enjoy it- it’s become a part of our daily routine to check in with each other. It’s created more awareness of each others wants and needs as well. I didn’t get this app because I was having relationship issues- It’s just something else to help us be stronger together; It makes us exercise our relationship muscles to be healthier together for our children and ourselves individually.

Long distance relationship review. My boyfriend and I enjoy this app, we are long distance so it gives us a chance to connect and it's something we look forward to every day. My only suggestion/complaint is they should ask when you sign up whether you live with your partner or not because some the quizzes and questions are based on living together so those aren't really helpful to us and we have the free version so you only get one question or quiz a day so it feels like a waste on those days. Other than that I really enjoy paired and it brings me and my partner closer together and it starts conversations that you may not have thought to have. I will say you have to be completely honest though to get the most out of this.

Great for couples with young kids!. My husband and I are deeply in love, but with two kids (who both hate sleeping), quality time is hard to come by, and sex had been routine and rushed. Just within the free trial week of using the Paired app, our sex life has seriously as improved - not just quantity, but quality! We are taking more time for talking during the day, conversations big and small. We’ve been more playful with each other, at home and in public. And we’re just answering simple, fun questions back and forth. I’m definitely sold on this app!

Great idea, terrible app functionality.. I loved the idea of this app and really wanted to use it to help strengthen my relationship with my husband. Unfortunately, the app itself does not work well. The notifications are random, I will get them sometimes and not at all other times. The chat feature does not work, I got a loading symbol that would be constant whenever I clicked on the chat. I could not see my partner’s answers even when it showed that both of us has answered a question/game/etc. My partner had the same issue. I tried deleting and re-installing the app, which fixed things once, but am I supposed to do that every time it doesn’t work? Like I said, the idea is sound enough but the functionality of the app is horrible.

Not what I was hoping for but good. I was hoping this could be a fun way to get closer in early dating trying to figure out what we want, for a long distance relationship, or maybe even a friend. This app doesn’t do any of those. It is specifically for committed close relationships that you’ve been in for a couple months atleast. It also expects some intimacy that is difficult in long distance or makes assumptions about you living together. Having said that if you are the target it’s a great conversation starter for all sorts of topics. Really something that would be a treat in relationships especially when you feel like you’ve asked everything you can think of.

Awesome App but could be so much better. My husband and I really like this app. It has open the door to conversations we should have and we’ve connected more than ever. However, there are some things we both agree need some improvement. We would like to see a button to select if the question asked is irrelevant or doesn’t relate to us. Also, a suggestion when people signup there should be profile questions asked about the couple individually and the relationship specifically so that the daily questions generated would be for the couple. Some of the questions asked are what the heck kind of question is this. We would love to see the questions more tailored to support our dynamic. Other than that the app is great. I believe if couples use it it would really help their relationship.

Great app, but I miss the old version. What a great app, my wife, and I really enjoy using this and getting a chance to reconnect, connect, or learn more about each other every day. We tend to use the app at different times during the day, and in the old version, it seem to be easier to see if she had an answered a question. Since I typically do it when I wake up, and sometimes she will go a day or two without doing it, then, do one or two at a time, sometimes her answers get lost. Paired, if you are reading this, anything you can do to try and make it where, as couples, we are not missing out on our other significant partners answer would be amazing.

Really great app!. Bf and I have been together for 2.5 years and practically inseparable so we know each other very well. Love that this app allowed us to see areas we understand each other while also opening up opportunities to see where we have room for growth OR may be missing each other entirely. Tonight we did the heavier questions and I loved that we could leave on a lighter and happy note by playing some games and continuing to connect. HIGHLY recommend this app for couples that are doing great, for couples that are looking to grow, and even couples that are super new and still learning each other. You can play games, do quizzes that have free form answers and also pretend to text each other

Updating my review. I made some comments and suggestions in my previous review about being able to easily see the responses and wow, they actually responded and delivered. And I really like the update! We can now clearly see which items we have both responded to and which ones are still waiting a response. This makes it so much easier to sit and discuss (we typically do these apart and come back together to discuss). Kudos to Paired for actually listening and incorporating user comments into their app. We are enjoying it and I would recommend to others as well.

SCAM. There’s a free trail period so my partner and I tried that then when we determined we didn’t like it I wanted to cancel. The app told me under “manage subscription” that he was in charge of it so he canceled it. I then checked mine to see if I would now be able to cancel and it still said he was in charge of the subscription. Then the day after the free trail period they charged me 79$! I wasn't able to cancel it on my end until they charged me. The “contact support” is just FAQs and there was an option for being charged and wanting a refund which they said I had to dispute the charge with apple and somehow they aren’t responsible!! This app was designed this way to scam people out of money and the “free trial” is not free because they are sneaky and will charge you anyways. Don’t get it!!!!!

Would be a lot better if ‘Premium’ wasn’t shoved down your throat. My SO and I have been using paired for months, even tried out the free trial for premium and liked it. However we cannot afford the insane subscription cost, and $80 is a lot to drop on an app for their year bundle. Our biggest problem with the app is when in the free version you get 1 free question a day. But if just one of you miss answering that question it will forever be a notification for you to answer it, yet you cannot unless you have premium. According to Paired, the question is only free for THAT DAY, and so if you miss a day for any reason, you can never answer the question until you pay the high premium cost. It was not always this way, as long as it was responding to your SO, you could answer the question no matter how long it’s been, but I believe it was the Nov 2022 update that took that away and forces you to get premium just to respond to a question your SO has already answered. I would rate it higher if the premium subscription cost was cheaper, or it did not force you to get premium just to answer a question it is constantly telling you to answer.

Chat function could be better. Paid for the premium version. The quizzes are nice little relationship exercises. And particularly nice when one partner isn’t as much of a verbal communicator. The chat function isn’t very efficient though as partners might fill them out at diff speeds and having each persons answers come in as individual messages for each answer can leave the slower partner a lot to visually sort what is waiting for them. I think there should be an area where the quizzes that have been filled out by either partner can be accessed separate from the chat function and then if one partner or other wants to respond to that particular question in chat it should “tag” the question as a “reply” so everyone can visually sort what is being responded to.

Worth every penny!. My husband and I have been using this app for several months and have nothing but positive things to say about it. Although we’ve been married for ten years, this app still helps facilitate and bring up topics that one person might want to but be unsure how to initiate. It makes it super easy to have tough conversations in a safe and comfortable way. I feel like every day we continue to have a better understanding of each other and our unique wants/needs. As far as the cost, it was $75 for the year. I’m not sure why people are complaining — that’s less than a quarter a day. If you don’t think your relationship is worth a quarter a day, then you’re not in the right one.

Interesting!. I’ve never paid for a subscription like this before. My fiancé and I are very much happy in our relationship and I could not be happier. I found the questions toe be really interesting s as I’ve never thought to discuss any of the topics it shares so we’ve both had fun answering as well as discussing why we chose our answers if it doesn’t seem clear. I think this is great for communication between couples to increase intimacy and communication. It’s also just a lot of fun! I’m looking forward to what a year will look like from now in terms of our communication and how much we have grown together.

it’s good but... I really like this app and so does my spouse, it’s helped us a lot with bettering our communication and it gives us prompts that we wouldn’t think to ask each other but are still very important. this app is really nice, my only complaint is that the games aren’t working for us, we try to answer a question and it won’t let us move on to the next, even if i answer and then he does, we paid for premium and we’re upset that we can’t get that full experience because these games aren’t working correctly. Other than that i have no complaints, this app is really helpful and it’s way cheaper than actual couples therapy.

ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS APP BUT…. This is the best app ever, I mean ever. The questions drive thought provoking conversations and has drastically increased communication between the two of us. The only things I wish could be added/updated are the ability to elaborate or comment on your answers or your partners response to your answer. We talk about it over the phone mostly but sometimes we have to just makes notes in our phone if there’s something that we wanted to ask. Also, I wish when I bookmarked things to save for a later conversation that my partners could see those bookmarked sections. Other than that, again I love this app and think it’s amazing! Great job to the creators and developers.

I love it!. I was mostly surprised my boyfriend was so readily eager to try this with me! I suggested it once and got a resounding yes! I will say, between the free and premium versions, I am loving the premium. We love doing the quizzes together and of course always do our daily convo. It’s bringing us closer because sometimes the answers surprise you or they’ll be things you had no idea your partner was thinking/feeling. A lot of the questions for us, have been things we never thought to ask each other! I love it and my boyfriend has been readily answering these along with me. I’ve already recommended this app to my sister and 2 of my friends! It’s amazing and I can’t speak highly enough of it!!

Best relationship tool!. I never imagined this app would help me and my girlfriend grow so much together! It gives excellent guides to having hard conversations; discussing topics that wouldn’t have come up easily, and providing feedback to know where we’re at on so many things. It’s excellent and the professional advice is perfect! I may suggest that a cool or new addition would be taking or providing pictures. For things like “what picture makes (you/ your partner) look sexy?” “Show a picture of something you appreciate outside of your relationship with your partner”

Perfect for ANY couple. My husband and I have been together for six years and after a while you think you know all there is to know about the person. This app helps you rediscover yourself as you rediscover your partner. I also appreciate the Check-Ins because you can assume they or even yourself are feeling a certain way but if you're honest when answering those questions you may discover some things have been taken for granted or some things you've felt for a while but haven't discussed. This app definitely 100% brought us closer and helps us to maintain open communication with each other. 10/10 I highly recommend!!

Adds some fun to relationships. I really like the conversations it opens up in my relationship with my partner. Some things are hard to gain courage to approach and this app makes it easier and less uncomfortable to have hard conversations. I also like it doesn’t make me feel bad about my answers. It really helps me see where I can improve. It’s also fun to play the games and have a little friendly competition. I enjoy the games; after 14 years of knowing it each other it’s a way to learn new things and even gives ideas to help me and my partner with the little things we may miss.

It’s great usually! But they assume we live together. I love this app to stay close with my long distance partner of 5 years. However, the app has the information that we don’t live together, but we often get daily questions about how well we divvy up chores and stuff like that- assuming we live together. Unfortunately my partner and I have no idea how to answer these and it’s kind of a slap in the face every time we see it because we want to be living together but we are apart until we finish our PhDs. I just wish the questions were more inclusive of long distance relationships because this app has the potential to be a perfect complement to a LDR.

Happy So Far. Great app so far. Great questions and an opportunity to have honest and open conversations about things you may not have otherwise thought to discuss. A note to the dev team: I would love to see functionality added that would allow you to chat directly within the questions versus going into the chat. This would allow further communication around these specific questions to evolve under the question when you and your partner are not sitting together. We do talk about the app, but I may not recall the specific thoughts that popped into my head when we finally get 1:1 time together.

I enjoy the app. I do have one gripe though.. Like the name says I love this app it has been a wonderful experience with my fiancé and we have really enjoyed keeping a streak up and answering questions and doing the exercising games. My one gripe is that they got rid of the make a option on the memory tab. I love the memories and it’s really cool for making things like PowerPoint eventually but the plan thing was heavily used and very enjoyable . It allowed us to make plans and keep track of dates that were very important coming up and not only did they get rid of the option to create new ones it got rid of all of the current ones which is a bit of a bummer, I would love to write it higher if that option was brought back because it genuinely does make a world of difference.

35 years and counting. My husband and I are having a blast with this app, we enjoy seeing each other’s answers and when we get together at the end of the day we talk about it. We have taken advantage of the email date nights and that too is great. We wish you had some type of highlight to let your partner know that you have left something in the discuss section, I have left my partner little notes in the discuss part (and vice versa) and he doesn’t know until I verbally tell him. Other than that, we absolutely love this app. Thank you for coming up with such a great way to communicate with your partner.

Good concept overall. I really like using this app with my wife. It’s been a great tool to spark in person conversation with her. My complaint is that you removed chat and replaced it with per topic conversation rooms in the app. While I understand the motivation for this it was a feature her and I both enjoyed greatly because that let us keep our day to day conversations separate from our marital conversations. I liked having a safe space to discuss feelings or text more intimate messages that couldn’t be seen by mistake when try to show the cute cat picture in my text messages. Plus not everything we discussed was directly linked to a conversation starter in the app. Some of it was adhoc or stemmed from conversations started out side of the app. So by removing chat you eliminated one of the key functionality that separated you from online quizzes.

FANTASTIC!. My boyfriend and I are in long distance, but we’ve known each other forever since we were kids and honestly at one point after the honeymoon phase I thought we knew everything about each other but with this app were able to discover so much about each other and talk about topics we never even brought up for before! The app also does streaks now, which make it fun and challenging one another to make sure we do it every day, which is the best part. Also, I know some people say that it might be expensive on an app, but we spend this much money on food and drinks and this is an app that will truly hope your relationship in my opinion. and I’ve gotten yearly subscription, and I’m on my second year now!

It actually works.. My boyfriend randomly stumbled upon this app while we were scrolling through reels together, and he suggested that we try it out. We currently use the free version, and it has absolutely taken our relationship to the next level. The questions are well thought out, and we both often look forward to answering them when we wake up in the morning. It has allowed us to learn more about each other in a fun, lighthearted way, and for that I can't recommend it enough to other couples out there.

It’s Helping!!!. After the loss of my dad, most days I’ve been really distant and short with my husband. My sister recommended me this app after her and her husband found it helpful and in just a week of using it. I have been able to learn better ways to communicate with him through the app. On top of also going to therapy to help with my grieving, this app has also helped to bring back our spark🩵 You have to pay for premium monthly for the better communication tasks/games, but again in just 1 week we’ve really been able to communicate better.

Not a fan of the update.. I don’t know the exact bug fixes were done with the update, but since I have experienced not being able to go back to questions my partner and I have both answered. Just today I can’t see my wife’s answer for a question last week that would help me with a birthday gift. I can see some from late November but not December or this weeks even. There was a bug I did enjoy. If my partner or I forget to answer, but the other did remember, we could still go back and answer. Defeated the purpose of “one question a day” technically but saved us when forgetful or busy. That bug was fixed with the new update which was kinda saddening.

BEWARE Unable to access app with paid premium, no customer service. I downloaded the app and upgraded to premium, which isn't cheap. Halfway through my subscription I tried to answer a daily quiz and it said I needed to upgrade. I double checked and I still had months left before renewing. There's no customer service number so I sent an emails and received no responses. In desperation, I tried to repurchase the app only to get a screen that says I'm already a premium member. Be aware that there's ZERO customer service if anything goes awry with your app and you'll be stuck paying for an app you can't use. I highly suspect that I'll soon be billed again when my yearly subscription is up, so I'm notifying my credit card company. I'll be filing a complaint with the BBB in hopes this doesn't happen to others.

Great for long distance relationships. I’ve had the app for about two months with my boyfriend since we are doing long distance for the school year. This has given us good conversations to have and learn more about the other. However right now there are some glitches in having conversations outside of the questions which have been annoying. And for the quizzes, the questions for the results will disappear so I have to refresh the app several times to keep seeing the questions for the answers. Worth the money for premium except for the bugs.

Great… except. My partner and I love this app so much that it’s become a part of our daily routine. The only reason I can’t give it 5 stars is because it seems to not recognize when I’ve answered the day’s question, therefore causing me to lose my streak. I’ve been consistent for at least the last 60 days but my current streak says 2 even though I’ve never missed answering a question. I can only guess that the reason for this is because my partner and I are currently in different time zones (9 hours) and we tend to answer questions once the other has answered no matter the time of day. Very frustrating as some one who likes to maintain consistency.

I like the app but….. I accidentally bought the premium subscription and apple won’t refund it. So I thought okay fine I’ll just redownload the app and use it since I can’t get a refund. Well I bought the same subscription again by accident thinking that it was gonna just give me what I already purchased without billing me. So now I bought the yearly premium subscription twice and not only am I prolly not gonna get the refund back. But the premium subscription doesn’t even work. Everytime I press on something that I can only access with the premium it says I still have to buy it even though I should already have it since I bought it twice now. I have a subscription that’s ends November 12, 2023 and November 21, 2023🤦🏼‍♀️